If you can't be cool, you can't be with the Countess on her wedding day.
Luann de Lesseps and fiancé Tom D'Agostino's wedding day may not be for a few months, but save the dates have already gone out for a few lucky guests.
E! News has learned that several family and friends are clearing their schedules to attend the romantic event scheduled for New Year's Eve in Palm Beach, Fla.
In fact, we can confirm Dorinda Medley is the only current co-star to receive an invitation as of now. Former Real Housewives of New York City star Jill Zarin and Real Housewives of Miami alumna Marysol Patton have also scored an invite to the special day.
In other words, a majority of Luann's co-stars including Sonja Morgan, Ramona Singer and Bethenny Frankel are not on the list to come as of today.
Perhaps it shouldn't be the biggest surprise to Bravo fans who have been watching a dramatic season of RHONY.
As Luann tried to celebrate her status as newly engaged in recent episodes, many co-stars brought up concerns and doubts about the relationship.
Ultimately, Luann has maintained that she has found her "soulmate" as they continue to show their love on social media. If you expect to see her wedding on TV in the new year, however, the reality star isn't so sure she wants to go that route.
"I adore Tom and I want to be happy. I don't want to have the Housewives curse so I don't think that's something I'm willing to do," Luann shared with E! News when asked about a possible televised wedding. "I think there's a lot to be learned from Housewives wedding specials. I think the only person who has been able to pull it off is Kim Zolciak-Biermann."
She continued, "I think your husband needs to really be into it. The person or partner you're going to be with really needs to be in it and you know, Tom is a very private person and I respect that."
Real Housewives of New York City returns August 17 at 9 p.m. only on Bravo.
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