The History of Jennifer Aniston's Adorable Friendship With Adam Sandler

Adam Sandler and Jennifer Aniston, co-stars in Just Go With It and now two Murder Mystery movies, have been pals since long before you had any idea who they were.

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Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler had already known each other for more than 20 years by the time they made their first movie together, 2011's Just Go With It.

They were practically still kids—"We were, like, 14," Aniston recalled on Jimmy Kimmel Live, exaggerating only a bit—when they met in Los Angeles. She was dating one of the Sandman's buddies (who has always remained nameless), but while that guy's not part of picture, Aniston and Sandler bonded over the complimentary pickles at Jerry's Deli and started a friendship that's still going strong decades later.

"I love her," Sandler, 56, told E! News at the premiere of Murder Mystery 2 earlier this week. "She's solid as a rock, she's in great shape, she's funny, she's cool. She let's me do her hair...Ever since 'the Rachel,' I took over, I fluff it up just right."

Intriguing, but Aniston, 54, had told E! moments before that her pal Sandler "likes to create rumors that aren't true, just for fun."

He sounds like quite the handful, but the good times they've always had together—making movies and just hanging out in real life—more than make up for any shenanigans. Asked if they're always making each other laugh on set, Aniston replied, "We don't try, we just do." 

So there may be no mystery as to why they get along, but Sandler has admitted he never predicted that he and Aniston would become two of the most successful entertainers of their generation, let alone their respective high school classes.

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Though she "crunched too loud," Sandler quipped to E! News in 2019 while promoting the first Murder Mystery, "I knew I was going to be friends with her. I didn't know I was going to be making movies with her. We both didn't know that, we were young and we didn't have jobs quite then."

Aniston wasn't surprised that they gravitated to each other, either—or, for that matter, that her pal blew up in a big way.

"He's such a mensch and you just love each other, he takes you in, and I'm very much the same way," she explained, "and then you become family. It's like second nature."

Sandler added, "And Jen has a family of friends and I have a family of friends, and we all hang."


Aniston name-checked mutual pals like David Spade, and Sandler joked about what it was like being invited to Lake Como for dinner with George and Amal Clooney.

"[Jen's] like, 'George and I would love for you to come over for pizza, but you have to dress right...You can't show up in your shorts,'" he cracked to E!, mimicking an exasperated voice. But Clooney "wears T-shirts, just like the Sandman," he noted. "They lay on him a little better. That's the only difference."

And with that, he had Aniston laughing for the umpteenth time that day.

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The camaraderie was palpable as they finished each other's sentences like brother and sister, but their friendship was primarily under the radar up until Sandler recruited the Friends star for Just Go With It, which hit theaters Feb. 11, 2011 (also Aniston's birthday). She played his character's best friend—whom he eventually realizes he's totally in love with after chasing Brooklyn Decker around for most of the movie.

After striking up their friendship in L.A., Sandler ended up back in New York in 1990, first as a writer and then as a cast member on Saturday Night Live, while Aniston got Friends in 1994, so their journeys geographically diverged early on. Even when Sandler was fired from SNL in 1995, a turn of events that he never fails to poke fun at, he started making at least a movie a year, starting with Billy Madison, and has barely slowed down since—his type of downtime coming more in the form of producing films that he can have all of his friends be in too.

Aniston, of course, became a huge star and then married Brad Pitt in 2000 (there's no mention of Sandler being at their Malibu nuptials, but Spade was—and Sandler also tied the knot with wife Jacqueline Titone in Malibu, three years later). She got divorced in 2005 and has talked about leaning on her tight circle of friends in the aftermath. Meanwhile, Sandler's first daughter, Sadie, was born in 2006 and his second, Sunny, arrived in 2008.

(As for whatever the future holds for Aniston romantically, Sandler told E! that "whoever Jen connects with, I'm psyched for that person, 'cause she's a 12 of a girl.")

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Aniston called it "heaven" and a "dream" when she and Sandler finally worked together on Just Go With It, which was filmed primarily in Hawaii, one of her favorite vacation destinations.

"It was a really nice time," Sandler agreed, nodding, during a joint sit-down with ScreenSlam in 2011, "hope to do it again."

"And we're going to," she swiftly added.

But their long history was so unknown at the time, that they were asked if they ever hung out when the cameras weren't rolling.

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"We would wrap, we'd go have dinner together," Aniston described their routine. "There was this corner we'd call the Magic Corner because the sunset was really beautiful. Then weekends, we'd hang by the pool."

Sandler cracked that he couldn't bring his kids to the adult pool that Jen preferred, so she'd hold up an extra-long middle finger she had the makeup department craft for her to flash at him from the far sexier swimming area.

So these two were always in a rhythm, effortlessly weaving together a joint nonsensical anecdote to both entertain and maintain their privacy. No surprise, then, that Just Go With It involved a fair amount of improvisation. Reviews were, you know, whatever, but audiences flocked to theaters to see these two in action and the movie made $215 million worldwide.

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The following year, Sandler paid tribute to Aniston when she received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, first taking gum out of his mouth and sticking it to the top of the podium for safe-keeping. He also did not dress up for the occasion, but it's not as if she would have expected anything less.

"That's for you, Aniston," he said, "nothing but respect, the best T-shirt I had. Here's a little speech I wrote last night:

"Gather around, people of Hollywood" he began, in his best signature-Sandler whoop-ta-dee-do voice, causing tears of laughter almost immediately, "because it's fairy tale story time. Once upon a time, there was a poor little Greek girl, growing up in Manhattan by the name of Jeneefer Anistuffelupagus..." Etc.

Approaching his regular voice, he concluded, "I love this girl, my wife loves this girl, the entire world loves this girl...the girl who put the grace in Office Space, put the jolly in Along Came Polly, put the 'hor' in Horrible Bosses, put the good girl in The Good Girl and took her naked boobs out of Wanderlust. For god's sake, let the girl have one thing she can keep to herself, you greedy bastards out there."

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Aniston got to return the favor recently when Sandler was honored with the Mark Twain Prize for American Humor, and she and fellow repeat Sandler co-star Drew Barrymore sparred onstage over who was actually the funnyman's preferred friend and leading lady.

Pretending to get serious, Aniston said, "About five years ago, I was really down, and he wrote a song for me. And he sings it to me every New Year's Eve—and it's called 'No One Is a Closer Friend Than You...' "'And That's Why This Song Is a Secret'?!" the actresses concluded in unison.

"He wrote that song for you too?!" Barrymore yelled in faux outrage. "And me!" Jackie Sandler chimed in from the balcony where she was sitting alongside the man of the hour.

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So back to the part about Sandler's wife loving Aniston, too: They seamlessly melded circles once they were both living in Los Angeles, Aniston hosting pizza nights with the Sandlers among her guests, shooting pool and watching big games.

"She has a lot of nice TVs. I hide in one of her rooms," Sandler explained to ScreenSlam, "she hangs out with my wife and all her other friends. I tend to hide"—"No you don't," she protested. "I have some fun," he acknowledged. "By the way, my favorite image [from one of those parties] is when a good song comes on and I look across the room, I see Aniston hear a good song and start dancing. She's a great little dancer."

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In 2019's Murder Mystery, a years-in-the-making reunion, they played a long-married couple who get tangled up in some international intrigue, as the title would suggest.


They had a blast on location in Italy (hence pizza night with the Clooneys on Lake Como). Aniston also shared with E! News that she advised Sandler on how to groom the mustache he grew for the movie, so that his wife wouldn't mind touching his face.

"We must have been real family in another life," she said of their bond when they sat down together on Jimmy Kimmel Live to promote the film.

She unfortunately had a previous commitment that prevented her from attending Sadie's Bat Mitzvah that past weekend, so she missed the command performance by Adam Levine, but "she sent one of the best gifts Sadie received out of everybody," Sandler gushed. "$1.8 million."

Once again, he had Aniston in stitches.

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That November they took to the stage together to accept the People's Choice Award when Murder Mystery was named Comedy Movie of 2019. Two months later Aniston unexpectedly gave a shout-out to Sandler and his critically lauded turn in Uncut Gems when she won a SAG Award for Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Drama for The Morning Show. (You remember, in the speech Pitt was watching backstage.)

After thanking a list of friends and colleagues involved with the Apple TV+ series, she remembered before she left the stage, "Oh, Adam Sandler! Your performance is extraordinary and your magic is real, buddy, I love you."

He was not in the room, but he got the message.

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On Instagram he shared a pic of his pal accepting her SAG Award and wrote, "Congrats to the great @jenniferaniston for her SAG award and her just being the best."

Obviously needing a break from all that seriousness, they signed up for another go-round of murder, kidnapping and mayhem—the silly kind, that is—in Murder Mystery 2, now streaming on Netflix. This time, Hawaii and Paris hosted their antics, including Aniston('s stunt double) swinging from the Eiffel Tower at 1:45 a.m.

It was either those locations or "my backyard," Sandler told E! News' Keltie Knight, joking that he offered to do "green screen, put some crazy city on there." In any case, he deadpanned, gesturing toward Aniston, "She said no."

(Originally published May 22, 2020, at 7 a.m. PT)

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