Treat Yo Elf: 50 Self-Care Gifts to Help You Get Through the Holidays & Beyond

From face masks and diffusers to weighted robes and beauty gadgets, we rounded up everything you need to stay cool, calm and collected.

By Emily Spain Dec 04, 2021 2:00 AMTags
E-Comm: Holiday Gift Guide, Self-Care

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Although we're in the season of giving, don't forget to treat yourself!

The holidays can be a difficult time for most and are undoubtedly stressful yet equally exciting, which makes it even easier to put your needs on the sidelines while you tackle your gift-giving list and take part in holiday traditions.

To help you take a step back from the peppermint-coated craziness, we rounded up 50 gifts that will help you recharge and feel your best self. From essential oil diffusers and beauty gadgets to neck massagers and weighted robes, we hope these gifts will remind you of the importance of investing in yourself this season. 

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Joy Gratitude Journal

Every day should start or end with some gratitude! This journal has daily gratitude prompts and mindful activities to help you give thanks for your blessings and welcome in more abundance into your life.

The Herbal Zen Variety Pack Shower Steamers with Essential Oils

We take our shower time seriously because there's so much to do in such a short amount of time. One way we like to wind down is by placing these essential oil steamers in the corner of our shower to create an at-home spa. Plus, your bathroom will smell amazing after your rinse is through.

Hydrating Watermelon Lip Masks - Jar of 20

Keep your lips extra hydrated and get them ready for those mistletoe smooches. These hydrogel watermelon lip masks are packed with antioxidants to help you achieve a supple pout in no time!

Yomisoy Cordless Heated Neck Massager

If your neck and back always hurt, we feel your pain. Literally. Thankfully, this genius heated neck massager has 15 levels of intensity to help you achieve deep relaxation of cervical spine. Just put it on while you're working from home or watching TV!

Olaplex No. 8 Bond Intense Moisture Mask

With the changing temperatures and stress of the holidays, your mane could probably use some TLC. Olaplex's Intense Moisture Mask will revive damages locks, add shine and will have your hair looking smooth and healthy AF.


HoMedics latest innovation is something you never knew you needed in your life! In short, drift is a beautifully-designed sandscape that promotes greater mindfulness, calmness and creativity in your space. Choose from dozens of mesmerizing designs, color combinations and playlists to make your space feel like a zen sanctuary even if your kids are running around or you're working from home.

Thanks to the drift app, you can customize your experience from your phone. Even better, a portion of every proceed goes to the National Alliance on Mental Illness!

Herbivore Moment of Clarity Smooth Skin Set

Purify, hydrate and smooth your skin with the help of this set from Herbivore! It includes the brand's bestselling Blue Tansy BHA Mask (one of our favorite masks ever), Bakuchiol Retinol-Alternative Serum and the Lapis Balancing Face Oil.

Electric Microplush Reversible Throw Blanket - Threshold™

Upgrade your move night with this electric throw blanket that has an automatic shut-off, controller, lighted temperature controls and heating zone functions. Plus, it's machine-washable!

PMD Clean Pro Rose Quartz

PMD's Clean Pro Rose Quartz is the perfect supplement to any self-care routine. One side features a silicone brush that helps gently exfoliate and remove makeup and dirt. On the other side, a warming rose quartz stone aides in reducing inflammation, increasing the effectiveness of topical products, and of course, will make you zen out.

Haven™ Teak Expandable Tub Tray in Natural

Upgrade bath time with this teak tray to hold your book, iPad and that much needed glass of wine.

Goop The Martini Emotional Detox Bath Soak

You can't have a proper bath without some detoxifying Himalayan pink salts to help you relax and unwind.

Moon Globes Freezable Facial Massagers

Say goodbye to tired, puffy eyes and redness by using these sparkly globe facial massagers! Not only are they cute and fun to use, but you'll feel and see instant relief, especially when you put them in the fridge or freezer prior to use. Pair them with Kiramoon's Star Jelly resurfacing facial for the ultimate at-home spa experience.

Cooluli Skincare Mini Fridge

With over 16,000 five-star reviews, it's safe to say this mini fridge will go over well when it's time to open presents! Pack this adorable fridge with your skincare masks, serums and tools to level up your morning or nighttime routines.

Gold Ear Seed Kit

Help your loved one reduce stress and pain, improve digestion and get relief from other common issues with these discrete gold ear seeds! Made with 24k gold-plated on a stainless steel base, these ear seeds are easy to apply and you can keep them in for 3-5 days and reapply weekly. The set comes with 40 gold ear seeds, gold WTHN tweezers, 100% latex free medical grade adhesive and a "How-To" map of 10 points to apply the seeds.

Renpho Foot Massager Machine with Heat

With over 11,536 five-star reviews on Amazon, it would be hard to say this heated foot massager isn't a fan favorite. Featuring an ergonomic design and varying intensities, this deep kneading Shiatsu foot massager will nourish tired, sore feet while allowing the rest of your body to relax.

MEDIHEAL Sheet Mask Heroes 6-Pack

While you're soaking in the tub or watching TV on the couch, layer one of these transformative sheet masks over your serums for extra hydration and nourishment. In this set, you'll get the brand's bestselling masks including the N.M.F Intensive Hydrating Mask, Tea Tree Essential Blemish Control Mask, Collagen Essential Lifting & Firming Mask, W.H.P Brightening & Hydrating Charcoal Mask, H.D.P Photoready Tightening Charcoal Mask and D.N.A Hydrating Protein Mask.

ProsourceFit Acupressure Mat and Pillow Set

With over 8,000 acupressure points, this top-rated mat and pillow set will alleviate pain and discomfort while promoting rest and relaxation! You can use it while you're sitting in your work chair, lounging on the couch or laying down on the floor. It also comes in 7 fun colors!

Inez Washable Silk Printed Long PJ Set

Since we started working from home, we have realized the importance of investing in quality, rich mom PJs. Eberjey's new silk pajamas are the definition of a treat yourself moment, but just think about all the nights you'll be snuggled in bed feeling so grateful you splurged on a luxe bedtime uniform.

The Mindfulness Coloring Book: The Adult Coloring Book for Relaxation with Anti-Stress Nature Patterns and Soothing Designs

Knock, knock, your inner child is here telling you to pick up some crayons and get coloring to stress less!

Laneige All Nighter Lip Set

These cult-favorite lip masks are packed with vitamin C and antioxidants to deliver long-lasting hydration. Besides the dreamy holiday flavors, this set is great because it includes a full-size jar to keep on your nightstand and two mini masks to carry in your purse and car.

Nécessaire The Body Ritual ($45 Value)

Level up your shower and self-care routine thanks to Nécessaire's cult-favorite body wash, lotion, serum and exfoliator. Trust us when we say to get ready for the best skin of your life!

321 STRONG Foam Roller

With VA tread and triple grid 3D massage zones, this magical foam roller helps treat muscle pain, increases blood flow and flushes away stored lactic acid post-workout. It's great for massaging your glutes after your booty bootcamp and your back after sitting in a chair all day.

Verilux HappyLight Lucent - UV-Free LED Light Therapy Lamp

Improve sleep, boost your mood and enhance focus while you're working thanks to this LED therapy lamp. It delivers up to 10,000 lux for safe and effective  natural light therapy

UGG Fluff Yeah Slide

There's nothing like a cozy pair of slippers to help you feel at ease during the colder months!

KNC Beauty Big Set

Whether you're looking to hydrate, brighten or soothe your skin, this set of vegan bio-cellulose face masks is for you! Each mask is packed with nourishing, cruelty-free ingredients that your skin will greatly appreciate.

Blume Mint Cocoa

While you're wrapping up a storm or watching holiday movies, sip on Blume's delicious minty maca-powered hot chocolate! In addition to satisfying your sweet tooth, it helps soothe indigestion and reduce brain fog.

Tibetan Singing Bowl Set

Add this Tibetan Singing Bowl Set to your meditation or spiritual practices and let its healing tones reduce stress and promote deeper relaxation.

MiHIGH Infrared Sauna Blanket

If you want to win at gift-giving this year, look no further than MiHIGH's Infrared Sauna Blanket! Besides bringing the spa to you, it has so many benefits like improved sleep, blood flow and circulation, plus it helps you sweat out toxins and stress. The blanket is portable, easy-to-clean and even easier to use thanks to a built-in timer and adjustable heat settings. It's been a complete game-changer for our wellness journey and we cannot recommend it enough!

dpHUE Apple Cider Vinegar Scalp Scrub

Scalp health is wealth! Powered by pink Himalayan sea salt, aloe vera, avocado oil and apple cider vinegar, this celeb-loved scalp scrub works to remove dead skin, dandruff and product residue without disturbing the pH level of the scalp.

Aira + Exfora - Facial Steamer + Microdermabrasion Wand

No need to leave the house to get a spa treatment! The Aira streamer will help decongest pores while the Exfora, an at-home microdermabrasion system, works to exfoliate, gently remove impurities and reduce inflammation. What a steal!

Yana 360° Body Pillow

Get the most out of your slumbers with proper pillow support! This uber-comfy pillow offers full-body ergonomic support and is made with organic cotton and bamboo velour to keep you cool. Even better, it fits up to two people, so you don't have to sacrifice cuddling time with your significant other.

C.S.M. Body Brush for Wet or Dry Brushing

There is a seemingly never-ending list of benefits when it comes to dry brushing! In short, this brush aides in renewing skin cells and reducing cellulite, plus it will give you a red carpet glow! Oh, and the practice has been around for thousands of years. It doesn't hurt either that this particular brush has over 14,000 five-star reviews on Amazon!

The Skinny Confidential Hot Mess Ice Roller

Ice rolling is a core part of our daily life because of the myriad of benefits! We love this insanely chic ice roller because of its unmatched design and ability to reduce puffiness and redness, boost circulation and promote lymphatic drainage.

ClassPass Membership

Break a sweat, get a facial or massage, stretch it out, revive your six-pack and honor your beautiful temple of a body with a ClassPass membership that will let you do all of those things and more. 

Silk Beauty Sleep Kit

Keep breakouts and frizzy manes at bay while you sleep thanks to this luxe satin pillow and eye mask set!

Gravity Fleece Weighted Robe

In a long-term relationship with your weighted blanket? You'll love this weighted robe even more. It has a three pound weighted wrap inside the collar that offers deep touch pressure stimulation to help reduce stress and promote deeper relaxation. 

Peppermint Halo® Roll-On

Ask us how many times we've gotten this for ourselves. To be honest, we've bought this magical peppermint oil roll-on too many times to count. If you have neck, shoulder or back pain, a few swipes generates an instant cooling effect to relieve pain

OTZI Dough Therapy Pore Treatment Mask

This dough-like mask is one of the coolest face masks we've ever tried and it's a godsend for our pores! Thanks to a blend of rice ceramides, kaolin clay and adlay and oat, it helps decrease sebum, reduce the look of pores while cleansing, exfoliating and brightening skin. 

Move Diffuser

Bring the benefits of aromatherapy with you on the go thanks to this cordless diffuser! Unlike like other diffusers, this one isn't an eyesore and it comes in seven colors to match any room's aesthetic. Don't forget to pair it with Vitruvi's dreamy holiday scents!

Otherland Citrus Lovers Candle Bundle

No self-care night would be complete without a dreamy candle! We are obsessed with Otherland's latest holiday scents that instantly transport you to a winter wonderland in the middle of the woods as they burn. While all of their candles will uplift your mood, we suggest this festive bundle!

Tea Drops x Hello Kitty Trio Set

Let's face it, a warm cup of tea and self-care go hand-in-hand! Tea Drops' adorable Hello Kitty Trio Set features addicting flavors like strawberry matcha, apple pie à la mode and English breakfast.

P.F. Candle Co. Incense

Let the good vibes flow with these heavenly-smelling incense sticks individually hand-dipped in fine fragrance oil!

Knesko Skin Nanogold Repair Neck and Décolleté Mask

Loved by real housewives, these neck and décolleté masks work to tone, tighten and naturally lift skin in time for those holiday parties where your neck will be on display.

Fenty Skin Hydra'Reset Intensive Recovery Glycerin Hand Mask

This Rihanna-approved hand cream is packed with 40% glycerin, plant extracts and fruit oils to keep your hands soft and hydrated all winter long.

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D

Nothing says self-care like taking the time out of your day to read. Not sure what book to sink your teeth into? Try this life-changing book that has over 33,121 five-star reviews on Amazon. The #1 New York Times bestseller written by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world's foremost experts on trauma, explores different paths to trauma recovery such as activities like neurofeedback, meditation, sports, drama, yoga and more.

Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare DRx SpectraLite™ FaceWare Pro

Treat yourself to this celeb-loved high-tech skincare mask! This futuristic device will help reduce wrinkles and fine lines while promoting collagen production thanks to the power of 100 LED lights in red mode and 62 LED lights in blue mode. No med spa appointments required!

Frank Body Rose Gold Shimmer Scrub

Look and feel like the spotlight is on you this season thanks to Frank Body's Shimmer Scrub! In addition to its all-star ingredient, coffee seed oil, this nourishing scrub includes ingredients like vitamin E and raw sugar to exfoliate and soften skin, plus reduce the appearance of cellulite.

Ultraplush Self-Heating G-Spot Vibrator

Last but not least, top off your self-care routine with a little self-love! With seven patterns and three intensities, you're sure to find a combination that will help you feel maximum pleasure. Goop's latest vibrator, made with body-safe silicone, also comes with a travel lock and pouch to avoid awkward situations while on the go. Even better, it has a rechargeable battery with battery-life display.

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—Originally published on Thursday, Nov 11, 2021 at 5:00 a.m. PST.