"john mayer is one of my favorite dudes. not even in some fantasy way. just in the way that he is in on the joke, while you are simply laughing at it."
What's sort of weird (besides the very public declarations of admiration) is that the two have generally avoided any online references to the much more famous women they're involved with.
Granted, Jennifer Aniston probably packs a nondisclosure agreement with every date to avoid such a thing, but since these guys are both celebrities in their own right, doesn't blogging about each other violate some Hollywood statute on kissing 'n' telling?