With three toddlers running around her California home, "We're constantly doing things," Nina shared. "I just want them to have a good time and have fun but I also want them to be stimulated and, like, learn." So their days are a mix of swimming lessons, arts and crafts and plenty of running around. "We love playing outside," she continued, so they've made use of Cali's pleasant climes by frequently dining al fresco "and making little outdoor dining situations in the backyard."
Under more normal circumstances, Noah would be gearing up for preschool, so he works with a tutor throughout the week and gleans some extra teaching from Mom. "We're trying to figure out different ways to incorporate homework and fun and play, and learning and all of those things," she explained of her dual role as educator and parent. "That's important."
Nina's is comprised of her mom Jennifer Lyons, Russell's mom Shannon Westbrook and their combined four brothers. "We have been blessed to have our family around to be able to help," she noted. "They support and they kind of just try to pick up where things kind of have gotten a little slow with Russell being out." It's expert advice that she's passed along to her fellow NBA partners. "It's difficult to do things alone," she explained. "So I think it's important to accept that help and reach out when you need help and I think that's the biggest thing. Because we all need support."
Thankfully, she has a whole crew just a text message away through the National Basketball Wives Association. "It's a very unique situation that we've all found ourselves in," she said. "And so being able to kind of lean on each other for that support and gather and get together, and kind of just know that other people know what you're going through and they're kind of navigating and trying to figure their own ways as well, it's just helpful."
But while their husbands' careers are certainly unique, their everyday issues are fairly garden variety: "We're just trying to live our lives and take care of our families and follow our dreams and our passions just like everybody else. It just so happens our husbands are really great at what they do."
Though she could do without the three-hour time difference ("This morning my husband called me multiple times and he knows normally, don't always wake me up in the morning. So, I answer and I'm like 'What's going on? Is everything okay?' and he is like 'Yeah, I'm going to my game!'") Nina is grateful that her husband's presence is still felt at the kitchen table. Thanks to FaceTime, "We have been doing this thing where we have breakfast together," she explained. "And the kids love that, and they like to feed him breakfast through the phone and all of this stuff. It's so weird but it's what our life has been like for the past however many weeks."
In fact, more often than not, Russell is dialing in to be part of family time. "He's very much so a FaceTime person," Nina said of the 2017 NBA MVP. "He likes to FaceTime the kids and FaceTime me all day long, and that's kind of been a saving grace for us." The only slight glitch is that her kids perk up each time her cell phone rings. "My girls just light up, you know, on the phone whenever Dad calls," she said. "Whenever anybody is FaceTiming me, they automatically assume it's him and that's really cute."
For Nina that means both her work as a licensed marriage and family therapist and also her newest baby: her kids' clothing line, Minibrook. Inspired by her experiences shopping for her brood, "I wanted to create a line that was sustainable," she said. "I was buying so many clothes for the my kids, like, the girls I have to buy two of everything, I want to make sure I created a clothing that is so well-made, that it could be used over and over again for a long period of time."
The yearlong process leading up to the Aug. 1 launch was admittedly "very stressful," she shared, complicated further by coronavirus causing shutdowns in manufacturing in Los Angeles' factories. But now with everything up and running, "It gives me a creative outlet, a way to get out some of my creative energy," she said. "It's just been really fun for me."
As a therapist, Nina is constantly stressing the need for self-care, a message she'd be well-served repeating into a mirror. "I think that I definitely would make a hard-headed client if I were on the other side," she admitted. "I'm not really great with self-care, but I'm a such a huge self-care advocate."
So she's made it a point to indulge her myriad hobbies. "I spend a lot of time doing things that make me happy," she shared. "I've taken up photography. I've started teaching myself how to play piano." And she's scheduled in pockets of alone time whenever possible. "Sometimes it just means I'm going to go out and just run and get coffee and just spend time by myself," she said. Or she makes it a movie night. "I don't know why I've ever stopped watching movies, I've been watching so many movies this past week," she said. "That's the newest thing and it just, it makes me happy. It could be something very small but I think it makes a big difference in the grand scheme of things."
As someone missing her favorite TV shows, Nina understands how refreshing it can feel to see your favorite stars battling it out on the court once again. "I feel like getting back to some type of normalcy is just going to be a little therapeutic for everybody," she explained. "So I think it's just a good fresh experience for everybody to get to watch sports again. Sports have always had a way of bringing people together."
While her girls are still a bit young to follow along, Noah is Dad's number one fan. "As far as game day," she said, "we try to let the kids watch as much as they'll care to watch."
The process is undoubtedly tough as they wait for Russell to burst out of the bubble (preferably with his first NBA championship in hand). "I can tell they miss their dad, especially my son," Nina said. "He asks us about him quite a bit and wonders when he's coming home." To keep any sadness at bay, Nina creates activities that make them feel their dad's presence.
"Literally this morning we just finished coloring, like, a million pictures, and we're going to send them to him so he can make like a little wall in his hotel room," she said. "It's an array of two 20-month-old's and a 3-year-old's artwork plastered all over." It will add to the other kid-friendly decor. "You know what's funny is my son's favorite characters are Buzz and Woody from Toy Story," she revealed. So it was fitting when Russell saw the theme in his particular Disney suite. "There was a Buzz and Woody on the bed," said Nina. "When he got there and showed Noah, Noah was so thrilled and excited. He's like, 'Oh, you get to sleep with Buzz and Woody, too!' So that's their thing now."
Those little moments help them get through some of the tougher ones, she allowed. "We just keep them busy," she said, "and we get to communicate as much as we can."