NYPD Blue's Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon: "My Focus Is on My Kids & Healing the Pain"

Actress is hoppin' mad after learning of husband's affair and allegedly emails his office over the news

With Tiger Woods, Jesse James and now possibly Tiki Barber, it seems infidelity is all the rage these days.

Which brings us to our next woman scorned: Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon, (who played Assistant District Attorney Valerie Haywood for four years on the ABC drama NYPD Blue).

In light of an email that surfaced earlier accusing her husband of cheating, the actress released the following statement: "My focus at this time is on my kids and healing the pain. There will be no further comment."

That's a lot more diplomatic than her message that lashed out at hubby CAA agent Mike Nilon for being unfaithful to her for nearly half of their nearly decade-long union...

Per the New York Post, Beauvais-Nilon sent a scathing email around the agency to her husband's coworkers, letting it be known that he's had a long-time mistress and that she's having none of it.

"Tiger Woods/Jesse James/Mike Nilon," the 43-year-old Haitian-American actress reportedly wrote in the missive, "what do they have in common...I found out today that MY husband of almost 9 yrs has been having an affair for 5 yrs with some slut in Chicago. I am devastated!!!! And I have been duped!! Our boys don't deserve this!"

 Luckily for him, she didn't take out a billboard.

The couple have 2-year-old twin sons together, Jax and Jaid, while Beauvais-Nilon also has a teenage son from a previous marriage.

Maybe Elin Nordegren and Sandra Bullock have some advice for the tube star? Reps for CAA and Beauvais-Nilon did not return phone calls seeking comment.

(Originally published April 4, 2010 at 11:44 a.m. PT)