She: Housewife of O.C.He: Deadbeat dad, ex-boyfriend of O.C. Housewife Jo De La Rosa Cupid Struck: Sometime before season five of RHOC. Gretchen could never be accused of stealing Jo's BF—before they hooked up, Jo and Slade costarred in Bravo's sloppy seconds series Date My Ex: Jo and Slade, in which Smiley roomed with a batch of potential love interests for his former live-in girlfriend. Where Are They Now? The lawsuit magnets observed the proper mourning period (almost six months) after the death of Rossi's fiancé Jeff Beitzel to go public with their romance in March 2009.