"They recently moved to a new house together," the source told us. "But since the cheating scandal, Dean hasn't been seen at the house very much. Right now he hasn't been there in several days."
But despite the growing distance between them, it seems as though the mother of four is doing her best to keep her family together.
"Tori is wearing her wedding ring but it looks like things are very strained. She has had her friend Mehran [Farhat] staying with her and is leaning on him for support. She's trying to keep things together for her kids and is putting on a happy face," the insider explained.
"She's acting as normal as she can and sticking to the same consistent routine. She definitely doesn't want her kids to be affected by what's going on."
Spelling was spotted out and about with her children—and without her husband yet again—over the weekend.
The former Beverly Hills 90210 cast member grabbed a quick lunch with her four kids, Liam, Stella, Hattie, and Finn, as well as her friend Mehran and the children's' nanny.
Spelling and crew got a bite to eat at Maggiano's in Los Angeles and even took a few doggie bags home with them.
The blonde appeared to be in good spirits as she exited the popular eatery.
Both Spelling and McDermott have remained mum since the cheating rumors first surfaced a few weeks ago.